Motherhood is a beautiful, rewarding journey, but let’s be honest—it’s also exhausting. As a working mom, I’ve had to learn the art of squeezing productivity into nap time and school hours while still making room for self-care and family bonding. It’s not always easy, and some days feel like a never-ending cycle of to-do lists, but through trial and error, I’ve found a rhythm that works. If you’re juggling work, motherhood, and everything in between, I hope these tips help you maximize your limited time without feeling overwhelmed.
Finding Time in the Chaos: My Reality Check
When my son was a baby, I used to think I could get everything done while he napped. I imagined myself conquering work tasks, cleaning the house, and maybe even sneaking in a workout. Reality? His naps were unpredictable, and by the time I settled down to focus, he’d wake up. I felt constantly behind, guilty for not doing enough, and exhausted from trying to be supermom.
Then, as he got older and started school, I thought things would get easier. In some ways, they did—I had more structured hours to work. But I also underestimated the emotional load of balancing school drop-offs, pickups, activities, and, let’s not forget, the infamous school emails that never end.
Through all of this, I’ve learned that maximizing time isn’t about doing more—it’s about doing what truly matters.
Time Management: Making the Most of Nap Time and School Hours
If I could give my past self one piece of advice, it would be this: Plan, but stay flexible. Here’s how I make the most of my limited work hours:
- Prioritize Your Tasks with the 80/20 Rule
Not all tasks are created equal. I used to waste time on low-impact tasks, leaving the important ones unfinished. Now, I ask myself: What 20% of tasks will bring 80% of my results? Those get tackled first. - Batch Work by Energy Levels
I used to try to do everything at once—answer emails, write content, and take client calls, all in one stretch. I’ve found that batching similar tasks together (writing in one block, calls in another) makes me more efficient and less mentally drained. - Set Clear Boundaries
When my son is at school, those hours are sacred for deep work. I silence non-urgent notifications, let family know I’m working, and avoid the trap of “just a quick scroll” on social media. - Use Nap Time Wisely
If your child is still napping, resist the urge to use that entire time for chores. Instead, divide it into three parts: one for high-priority work, one for a quick household task, and one for YOU (even if it’s just 10 minutes of breathing room).
Overcoming Mom Guilt: You’re Doing Enough
Guilt is an unwelcome companion in motherhood. I’ve felt guilty for working while my son napped instead of snuggling him, and I’ve felt guilty for playing with him instead of working. It’s a never-ending cycle—until you break it.
Here’s what’s helped me:
- Redefining Productivity: Productivity isn’t just about work. Bonding with my son, resting, or even taking a break is productive too.
- Letting Go of Perfection: My house isn’t spotless, and I don’t always make Pinterest-worthy meals. And that’s okay.
- Reminding Myself That I’m Enough: My son doesn’t need a perfect mom; he needs a happy one. When I take care of myself and set boundaries, I show up better for him.
Self-Care: The Non-Negotiable Piece of the Puzzle
For the longest time, I put self-care on the back burner. I told myself I’d relax “when everything was done.” Spoiler: Everything is never done.
Now, I build small moments of self-care into my day:
- Morning Rituals: A 10-minute stretch or a quiet cup of coffee before my son wakes up grounds me for the day.
- Micro Breaks: Even a five-minute breather between tasks makes a difference.
- Outsourcing Help When Possible: I used to think I had to do everything myself, but asking for help (whether from a partner, babysitter, or meal delivery service) has been a game-changer.
Maintaining Work-Life Balance: It’s About Harmony, Not Perfection
The truth is, work-life balance isn’t a perfect 50/50 split. Some days, work takes over; other days, my son needs me more. Instead of striving for balance, I aim for harmony.
Here’s what helps:
- Quality Over Quantity: If I only have 30 minutes with my son before bedtime, I make it count by being fully present.
- Flexible Work Hours: If possible, adjusting my schedule to fit our family rhythm makes a big difference.
- Grace, Always: Some days are messy, and that’s okay. Motherhood and work both come with unpredictable moments.
You’re Doing Enough, Mama
If there’s one thing I want every working mom to remember, it’s this: You are enough. Whether you spent the day crushing deadlines or just survived on coffee and cuddles, you’re doing great.
Productivity isn’t just about work—it’s about creating a life that feels fulfilling, balanced, and joyful. And even on the days that feel chaotic, you’re showing up, loving your child, and doing your best. And that is more than enough.
So take a deep breath, grab that cup of coffee, and know that you’ve got this, mom.
I’m Zara Michell
