As a working mom, I know how precious family time is. Between juggling work meetings, after-school activities, and the never-ending to-do list, finding time for a fall family photoshoot can feel impossible. But trust me, it’s worth it. Over the years, I’ve learned that these moments frozen in time become treasured keepsakes—especially as our little ones grow faster than we can believe.
So, if you’re like me, craving beautiful fall memories but struggling with time, stress, and maybe a little guilt, I’ve got you covered. Here’s how I’ve managed to make fall photoshoots a tradition in my family while keeping my sanity intact.
1. Finding the Right Time: Balancing Work and Family
One of the biggest hurdles for a working mom is scheduling. Between meetings, school drop-offs, and bedtime routines, it can feel like there’s never a good time. But here’s what has worked for me:
- Weekend Mornings or Golden Hour: Early weekend mornings or just before sunset offer the best lighting for photos. I plan around my son’s nap schedule (when he was younger) or around when he’s naturally happiest.
- Plan in Advance: I put the photoshoot on our family calendar weeks ahead of time, treating it as a non-negotiable event. Just like work meetings, if it’s scheduled, it’s happening.
- Keep it Short and Sweet: Kids (and husbands, let’s be real) can only tolerate so much posing. I aim for a 30–45 minute session—long enough to capture great shots but short enough to keep everyone happy.
2. Choosing the Perfect Outfits Without the Stress
I used to stress over picking the perfect coordinated outfits. Now, I stick to a few simple rules:
- Neutrals with a Pop of Fall: Earthy tones like mustard yellow, burnt orange, and deep greens work well with the fall backdrop.
- Comfort Over Perfection: If my son isn’t comfortable, he’s not smiling. Soft fabrics, cozy sweaters, and shoes he can run in are must-haves.
- Layering is Key: Fall weather is unpredictable. I always bring a stylish scarf or cardigan just in case.
3. Making the Photoshoot Fun (Not Forced)
A stiff, posed family photo screams stress, not cozy memories. Here’s what helps us keep things lighthearted:
- Candid Moments are Gold: I let my son run through leaves, give daddy a bear hug, or giggle at my silly dance moves.
- Props Make it Playful: A simple blanket, a basket of apples, or a pumpkin spice latte in hand can make photos feel more natural.
- Pick a Location with Meaning: We love returning to the same pumpkin patch each year—it adds a sentimental touch to our albums.
4. Managing Mom Guilt: It’s Okay to Want Beautiful Memories
Every working mom battles guilt. I’ve been there—questioning if I should be using this time for chores, work, or just resting. But here’s my reminder (and yours):
- Memories Over Perfection: The dishes can wait, but these moments won’t last forever.
- It’s an Investment in Happiness: Studies show that looking at happy family photos can boost mood and reduce stress. So yes, this matters.
- Your Kids Won’t Remember the Chaos, Just the Love: Even if the photoshoot feels like a circus, your kids will cherish these memories in the years to come.
5. Self-Care for Mom: Looking and Feeling Your Best
I used to neglect myself while making sure everyone else looked picture-perfect. Now, I follow a few simple self-care steps:
- Pick an Outfit That Makes You Feel Amazing: A flattering dress, cozy sweater, or even just a great pair of boots can boost confidence.
- Minimal but Effective Makeup: A little mascara, a natural lip color, and a touch of blush can do wonders.
- Take a Deep Breath and Enjoy: Stress shows in photos. I remind myself to relax, smile, and enjoy the moment.
6. Work-Life Balance: Making Time for What Matters
Balancing work, motherhood, and personal life isn’t easy, but small steps make a big difference:
- Set Boundaries with Work: If your job allows, don’t check emails during your family time. Those notifications can wait.
- Prioritize What Matters Most: It’s okay if your home isn’t spotless. Time with family is more important than a perfectly folded laundry pile.
- Celebrate Small Wins: If you made it through a family photoshoot with happy kids and only minor meltdowns, that’s a win!
Final Thoughts: You’re Doing Amazing, Mama
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, remember this: You are creating beautiful memories for your family. It doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to be real.
So embrace the chaos, laugh through the mess, and cherish the love captured in every frame. One day, you’ll look back at these photos and be so grateful you made the time.
Now, grab your pumpkin spice latte, gather your loved ones, and go make some cozy fall memories!
Do you have any favorite fall photoshoot traditions? Share them in the comments—I’d love to hear them!
I’m Zara Michell
